Self-Love: 5 Simple Steps to Harmony

Psychologist, Crisis Consultant, General Manager LifeLine Ukraine Anastasiia Hlazkova

Anastasiia Hlazkova

Psychologist, Crisis Consultant, General Manager

Apr 28, 2025

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Self-Love

Self-love isn't selfishness, but rather the foundation for a harmonious and happy life. But what does it actually mean? Loving yourself is about accepting your uniqueness, taking care of your mental and physical well-being, and being willing to support yourself in any circumstances.

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5 Simple Steps to Harmony

However, loving yourself isn't an easy task. Many people criticise themselves excessively, doubt their own worth, and ignore their needs. But harmony with oneself is possible. Here are 5 simple steps that will help you build a better relationship with yourself:

1. Change Your Inner Dialogue

The way you talk to yourself shapes your self-esteem. Try replacing self-criticism with support. For example, instead of "I failed this task," say, "I did my best, and now it's experience." Ask yourself: would you say that to a friend? If not, don't say it to yourself either.

2. Say "No" When You Need To

Self-love is about knowing how to set personal boundaries. Saying "no" to something that drains your energy isn't rudeness, but self-care. Learn to refuse what doesn't suit you and create space for what fills you up.

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3. Set Aside Time for Yourself

Even 10 minutes a day can make a difference. This could be a walk, a cup of tea, drawing, or meditation. Small rituals for yourself aren't a luxury, but a necessity for recharging your energy.

4. Be Patient with Yourself

Accepting yourself is a process. Don't demand perfection from yourself. Allow yourself to make mistakes, feel different emotions, and don't rush things. Every small step is progress.

5. Surround Yourself with Support

Your environment influences your well-being. Prioritise those who motivate you, support you, and inspire you. Time with such people is an investment in your happiness.

Your mental health is just as important as your physical health. Taking care of yourself isn't just about resting, but also about working through your emotions. If you feel the need, seek support from a psychologist or psychotherapist. Even the smallest changes in your attitude towards yourself can bring big results. Start with something simple – say something nice to yourself, allow yourself to rest a little, or do something that brings you joy.

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